Kanina sa TV Patrol, they have a text poll concerning “Divorce”, lumalabas sa result, correct me if I’m wrong with the digits, but I know the percentage goes 53% or 51% for the Pro’s and the remaining percent is of course for the against divorce.
Nakakalungkot lang na sa panahon ngayon madame na ang sumasangayon dito. Even without the concern of religion, this concept is really wrong. Yes, you may have had ended with a bad relationship that before inakala mong wagas at totoo, and now your solution is divorce? Ganun na lang ba talaga kadali yun? Why not try to think of the possible ways of saving your relationship, or think of the positive reasons why you have to save your relationship…like thinking about your kids? In my opinion if our government allows “divorce” in our country probably they will just increase also the number of broken families here in the Philippines. There’s this old saying about getting married, “Ang pag-aasawa hindi yan parang mainit na kaning isusubo mo lang, tapos kapag napaso ka iluluwa mo na lang bigla.” If there is indeed an option as “Divorce” don’t you think that saying will still be relevant? With Divorce as legal, that saying will be revised into something like this: “Ang pag-aasawa parang mainit na kanin lang yan.. pagsinubo mo tapos napaso ka.. eh di iluwa mo!”.
We are so blessed that God has given us freedom, to decide for our own… to have free will… kaya lang minsan naabuso naten…may mga mahahalaga tayong desisyon sa buhay na dapat isa-alang-alang at hindi nadadaan sa basta bastang pagdedesisyon. Same goes with matrimony.
As a daughter, I cannot bear to see my mom and dad to go their separate ways and never did I think of having a broken family. Again I repeat myself, Divorce will not actually make our country convenient, and instead it will just increase the chances of having countless numbers of ruined families. Hindi naman naten kelangan makipagsabayan sa mga ibang bansa eh, dahil hindi naman porke’t ginagawa ng karamihan eh yun na ang tama.
